People don’t change.

There are habits and there are innate personality traits. The Core of a person does not change.  Their habits, can.

Let’s talk about addictive and/or excessive personalities.  Take your alcoholics, drug addicts and gamblers.  Even if they stop their vices, they still have addictive personalities.  They may stop their “habit” of drinking, doing drugs and gambling – but that void then has to be filled with something else.

They may turn their energies towards being health conscious, or religious or throw themselves into work – but the need of that personality characteristic has to be satisfied in some way.

The key is finding something that isn’t harmful and doesn’t annoy the *&$#* out of everybody else.

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